How to Get Through Work When Youre in a Bad Mood - The Muse

How to Get Through Work When Youre in a Bad Mood - The MuseHow to Get Through Work When Youre in a Bad Mood Your alarm doesnt go off because you had it set to PM instead of AM. When you open the fridge to grab milk for your coffee, a bottle of hot sauce goes flying and within seconds, your kitchen floors splattered with Cholula. You manage to clean it up with barely enough time to spare without being seriously late. On your way into the office, you look down at your hip and realize your leftovers are leaking onto your jeans. So now you smell like garlic chicken. To top it off, youre still reeling from the argument you had with your sister last night about, of all things, what kind of party to throw for your parents 40th anniversary. Youd just as soon like to crawl into a dark hole- or, better yet, your bed- than put on a chipper face and strike up small talk with your co-workers, none of whom seem to be wearing any part of their afternoon meal on their outfit. Its difficult to think of the work youve got to do today for eight or more hours. Ugh, and that meeting with the legal team at 5 PM? Who cares that Jeanine is going around with homemade zucchini bread? Or that the engineering team finally fixed that bug? Your sister hasnt responded to your last three texts, and you didnt have time to work out this morning due to said alarm issue.Oh, boy. Its going to be a long day if you dont snap out of it- as if snapping out of it is something you can just magically do when your insides are burning, and youre, in a way, feeding off of your wretched mood. While it may feel good to temporarily bask in the seething glow that is currently you, you could really come to regret it. No need to damage your professional reputation because you let your foul mood seep into everything you say and do. Unlike your BFF or your partner, your team might not be so understanding if you take it out on them and then try to explain and apologize once youre feeling better.You, my friend, must learn to manage your bad mood. You dont have to accept your colleagues invitation to grab coffee, and you dont need to be imminently present in every group chat conversation. Dont feel like talking to Greg about last nights baseball game like you guys usually do? So dont. The key to keeping your unpleasant mood in check during the workday is to say as little as possible. By staying quiet, you avoid the risk of opening your mouth and saying the first snarky thing that comes to mind. By remaining mostly mum (where you can get away with it) you forgo offending someone with your sarcasm, which feels like the only language you know today. Muse Career Coach Kristina Leonardi suggests using the bad mood as an exercise in the discipline of being in the present and concentrating on the task at hand. This might actually get you out of the bad mood, or even just make you feel temporarily better since youre not ruminating on it, explains Leonardi. So zero in on your work and zone everything els e out. Youre obviously going to have to respond if youre being called upon for a workday matter, but youd be surprised at how much you can keep to yourself without anyone really noticing. Even if youre generally very gregarious, its unlikely that anyone but your closest friend at work is going to call you out on it much less notice.Everyone around you likely has enough of their own stuff to deal with. You laying low for a day and never taking off your headphones isnt going to have much of an impact, if any. Trust me Shooting your mouth off because the toxic attitude is seeping and spreading is going to have a far bigger negative impact than temporarily withdrawing. No one is exempt from being in a bad mood, but the sooner you can learn to manage it, the better off youll be. Photo of man having a bad day courtesy of Zero Creatives/Getty Images.